As Jamie and I have been preparing to invite a new team
member into our home, we have been doing a lot of reading and trying to soak up
all of the wise counsel that friends and family have been willing to offer.
Among the books we have been reading, NaturalChildbirth The Bradley Way by Susan McCutcheon has been incredibly helpful
as part of final preparation for labor.
While the book is over 20 years old, given that it is
talking about natural childbirth, it
isn’t like the information is going to be obsolete any time soon. The book does
a great job of taking this incredibly miraculous process and giving expecting
parents a pathway for preparation.
For most women who have never given birth there are
stereotypes and stigmas at work that can cause significant anxiety. Some women
tell horrible stories of the extreme pain and trauma that their bodies went
through during labor. Television and movies almnormal,
but we still were not sure what normal was/is.
ost always portray childbirth as
happening while lying on one’s back, in stirrups, and with lots of newspapers,
towels, and hot water around. At the same time, television and other media
portray husbands/fathers as helplessly sitting in a waiting room anxiously
pacing with cigars or bubble-gum to hand out to everyone as he proudly
announces that he is the father of a boy or girl. Having spent some time in
other parts of the world, and having several friends who have given birth, we knew
that these stigmas and perceptions were not
Reading Susan McCutcheon’s book, helped us both shatter
stereotypes, and have prepared us both to be able to contribute strongly during
labor. Of course, Jamie is in the driver’s seat, and I am confident that she
will perform like an Olympic athlete bringing her very best self to the
unfamiliar to her, but well established by women, path through labor to
bringing a new life into the world. For my part, I plan to bring my very best
self to lovingly support her, relax her, advocate for her, and help her to
focus on the fact that her mind and body (and the baby) are ready for her to go
through this miraculous process.
The book is filled with relaxation techniques, positions to
try, and encouragement that childbirth is normal, and we have a number of
medical advances that can support us if complications arise, giving birth
naturally is a strong possibility for most women and that it is worth giving
the effort. If you are looking to learn more about natural childbirth be sure
to give Susan McCutcheon’s book a read.
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